Dildos to put in harness, what is it?

How it works

A dildo for harness is a dildo that is attached to a harness to form a dildo belt. This system can be used for both anal and vaginal penetration. The dildo becomes a real extension of the body of the person who wears it. The dildo becomes a true extension of the wearer's body, allowing her to move back and forth with her pelvis to penetrate her partner in the same way as with a natural penis.

Who is the dildo belt for?

The dildo belt, whether it is all-in-one or composed of a dildo and a separate harness, is generally used by lesbian and heterosexual couples. They can however make the happiness of all since it is possible to use it like a traditional dildo, without harness. It will be appropriate for those which do not have necessarily the practice of the sextoys because its use does not require particular competences. You will simply have to try it out a few times to get the hang of it and to use it in the best possible way. Usually, the dildo belt is worn by a woman, but men can also wear this sex object, for example to double penetrate their partner. Just like penis girdles, the dildo belt can also become an ally for men with some erectile dysfunction.

Why use a strap-on dildo?

There are many reasons why you might want to use a harness dildo, and more generally a belt dildo.

Dare to have sex

Whether you've already experienced anal pleasure with a plug or are a complete novice, the belt dildo is the perfect accessory for playful sodomy. It can inspire all sorts of naughty role-playing, which you can enhance with accessories and sexy clothes if you feel like it.

It will also allow you to develop an incredible complicity with the person who shares your bed. Many men fantasize about sodomy but don't dare talk about it with their partner. They are often afraid that they will be judged and that it will jeopardize their relationship. This fear is really damaging because it leads to frustration and shame within the couple. Dildos for harnesses are probably the solution to break this taboo. The funny side of the object allows to de-dramatize the subject of sodomy, sometimes delicate. The disguise aspect of this accessory, which comes from the role reversal it can give rise to, will also allow you to free yourself. By creating an erotic scenario, for example, you will have much more facility to propose this practice in your couple. You will then be able to dare sodomy without fear of being "frowned upon" by your partner, by presenting the dildo belt as a simple game to get out of your sexual routine.

Take the power

Ladies, what are you waiting for to try pegging? This practice, which is gaining ground among heterosexual couples, consists of penetrating your man with a belt dildo. In addition to going against the stereotypes, this sexual game will certainly give you and your partner a lot of pleasure. If he agrees, go for it! Reversing the balance of power and taking control of the act can be really fun. A new complicity will be established in your couple and you will be totally in control of your pleasure and your partner's. For lesbian couples, the dildo belt will allow you to enjoy the joys of penetration without the need for a penis. The accessory has the advantage of penetrating more deeply the vagina or the anus than your fingers, for example, for a more intense stimulation of these erogenous zones. You can also take control of the intercourse and dominate your partner, which is a great source of pleasure for many people.

By taking the power, you may discover the soul of a dominatrix. In any case, your sex life will be more fulfilled. Opening yourself up to new sexual practices can indeed maintain your desire and libido. If you like the feeling of domination provided by the dildo belt, you can turn to more BDSM-related objects such as handcuffs, breast clamps or a riding crop.

Spice up your sex life

The harness dildo is the perfect accessory if you want to add some fantasy to your lovemaking. Not only can you reverse the roles, but you also get to experience new sensations and try out new sex games. For example, you can try double penetration for twice the thrill and pleasure. The dildos for harness will allow men who wish to test sodomy, and thus discover the erotic potential of their prostate. This male erogenous zone has the reputation of offering very powerful orgasms when properly stimulated. A prostate massage with a belt dildo will titillate your P-spot, for a tenfold pleasure. If you really want to get out of your comfort zone and broaden your sexual horizon, some harnesses can be attached to places other than the pelvis, such as the thigh or the jaw. This allows you to try new ways of having sex that are very different from what you're used to. The only limit to your erotic games will be your imagination.

The different models of dildo for harness

Here are the main features to look for when buying a dildo for harness. This will allow you to choose the most suitable one according to your needs and your practice.

The material

Dildos for harnesses are made of soft silicone in most cases. This material has the advantage of being healthy for the body. Silicone does not contain latex or phthalates if it is of good quality, which greatly reduces the risk of allergies. Your accessory will also be easy to clean and very pleasant to the touch.

The size

This parameter is very important when choosing a dildo for harness. If you are not used to this object, go for small models. You can also opt for a larger or smaller diameter depending on what you want to do with it. A thin dildo will be more suitable for anal penetration, for example. In addition to the diameter, also look at the insertable length of the dildo. Most vendors offer a range of dildos for harnesses from size S to size XL. Determine your ideal size based on your experience and desires.

Other features

Whichever model you choose, make sure it has a wide enough base to be compatible with a strap-on harness. If not, the dildo may not fit properly or may slip off. There are totally smooth dildos and others that are more realistic. For example, bendable dildos are flexible and soft for a sensation closer to that experienced during penetration by a real penis. Some of the dildos for harnesses offered by Fun Factory are ribbed, to imitate veins. Most models are curved for optimal G-spot or P-spot stimulation. Like many sex accessories, the belt dildo comes in a vibrating version. Vibrating dildos will stimulate the vaginal or anal walls differently during penetration. The sensations will generally be stronger, more intense. Another advantage of the vibrating dildo is that it will indirectly stimulate the clitoris of the wearer, the vibrations reverberating in the toy to its base, pressed on the pubis. Both partners will then have the possibility to reach orgasm at the same time.

The advantages of using a dildo for harness

Opting for a harness dildo is a great choice if you are looking for versatility. Because it can be removed from the belt dildo attachment, you can own several sizes of dildo and change according to your desires or experience. You won't need to buy a complete dildo belt every time. This accessory will also allow you to experience more sensations than with a plug during anal penetration, as it is larger and designed for back and forth movements. In addition to being usable with a harness, you can use it as a classic dildo or attach it to a smooth surface with its flat suction cup base. This further increases the range of play made possible by this accessory.

How to use a dildo for harness?

In order to use a harness dildo as a belt dildo, you must first have a strap-on harness. Once you put it on and adjust the straps around your thighs, the dildo will attach to the front. Simply pass it through the attachment ring, while leaving its flattened base pressed against your pubic bone. If you are using a belt dildo for the first time, don't choose a position that is too complicated and start penetrating gently, without forcing. It may be difficult to master the dildo the first few times, especially for women who are not used to these movements. The back and forth movements will probably be a little awkward at first, but you will gain confidence and skill with experience.

Precautions for use

• Don't hesitate to use lubricant during sodomy, as the anus does not naturally secrete lubricating fluids, unlike the vagina. Prefer water-based lubricants so as not to damage the silicone of your dildo.
• To avoid untimely slips that could break the rhythm and the atmosphere, check before starting that the dildo is well fixed on the harness.
• Before a sodomy, you can perform an enema if you are afraid of coming face to face with fecal matter. This will give you peace of mind and allow you to concentrate on your pleasure during your lovemaking.
• During penetration, whether anal or vaginal, talk to your partner. If you are the wearer of the dildo belt, make sure you are not going too fast. If you are the person being penetrated, let your partner know if you feel any pain. This will make the experience more enjoyable for everyone.
• Put a condom directly on the dildo if you are using it with more than one person. Remember to change condoms every time you change partners.
• It is essential to wash your accessory after each use with a suitable cleaner, to ensure good hygiene and to extend the life of your dildo as much as possible.